When I left London escorts and got married, I thought that I had pretty good people skill. However, it did not take me long to realise that I did not have the necessary skills to cope with my mother-in-law. I am not saying that my mother-in-law is a nasty lady, but I am not sure what she would do if she found out that I used to work for a cheap escorts in London agency. But, it is not only my less than imperfect career that affects my relationship with my mother-in-law. She also seems to recent the fact that I am a foreign girl.
I would not go as far as to call my mother-in-law a racist, but she is certainly not the most understanding the person when it comes to different cultural matters. The first thing she said to me, was that she thinks a lot of Polish girls have left Poland to take advantage of the benefit system in the UK. That is not the case. Many Polish girls who live in London left Poland to work as London escorts. You also encounter many Polish girls who have left Poland to work as models in London. When they found out that it is hard to make it as a model in London, they ended up working for London escorts instead. At first this really used to upset me, but now I just ignore her. I know that I am not the only person to find her comments offensive.
My mother-in-law also finds it hard to believe that I did not want children right away. I know that there are many girls who want to start a family the moment they get married, but I am not one of those. I worked for London escorts for a long time. It would be nice to explore another career apart from London escorts. That is what I plan to do with my time during the first couple of years of my marriage. I am not sure what my mother-in-law thinks, but I feel good about what I am doing. At the end of the day, I think that is all that matters.
Like so many other mother-in-laws, my one criticises the way I keep home. She says that my house is never clean enough and that the iron often piles up. There is nothing wrong with my husband helping me to do some of the household chores. In Poland, men often have to help at home. My husband makes just as much mess as I do and I think that it is important that we do things together. I often do the washing and he does the ironing. It is one things that I told my husband that I would expect of him before I left London escorts.
My sister-in-law does not have a very good relationship with my mother-in-law either. I think that I actually get on a bit better with my mother-in-law when compared to the relationship other family members have with her. When I worked for London escorts, I learned that you need to stand up for yourself. In many ways I have applied the same thing to my relationship with my mother-in-law. I think that is why she gives me less hassle than the other girls who have married her precious sons. We are special and she should be glad that she has such lovely girls in the family. In other words, it is important to have the right mental attitude to cope with your mother-in-law.